April 18, 2012 § Leave a comment
the majority of my days are spent in a classroom with ten 4-year olds. i am the ‘teacher’, but there are a number of things i have been taught by my young souls. they’re open, brutally honest, and completely uninhibited with their affection. with the year coming to a close in a little over a month, i thought it would be a good idea to jot down the things that have stuck with me over the past 8 months:
APOLOGIZE & FORGIVE EASILY-the star of this story is a little fireball that can be difficult at times. the concept of ‘self-control’ is one that we work on DAILY. it’s hard for him to raise his hand before blurting out; it’s hard for him to keep comments to himself; it’s hard for him to keep his hands to himself…but, he is always quick to say ‘i’m sorry’ and to forgive mistakes.
(story time) everyday my class enjoys a little thing called ’snack time’. it’s their favorite part of the day when the work stops and the rules set in place for talking are put to the side. my students know the routine. sit down in the gym, choose milk/water, eat, clean up, throw trash away, etc. well, this particular day one of my little ones decided to rush off after eating without clearing their spot. with many other small annoyances building from the morning, i saw the mess, and i was frustrated. i assumed it was this little guys’ trash because he was sitting close to the area and most of the time any mess that’s left is his. well, today miss d. was wrong. with a serious face and an incredibly stern voice, i said ‘_______, come throw your trash away right now! i am not cleaning this up.’ to which he replied, ‘but miss d. that’s not mine!’
typical. this is always his response, and i didn’t believe him this time. not until another student calmly walked up to me and said, ‘that’s my trash, miss d.’, picked up the cup, and walked over to the trashcan.
i was left standing there looking and feeling quite ridiculous. i was wrong, and my little friend was right. let’s be honest, i was embarrassed. isn’t that silly?! a grown adult feeling embarrassed about being wrong with a 4-year old. i knew i needed to apologize, even if no other adults had been close enough to hear what happened. it would have been easier to brush it off and move on to our next activity, but i had called him out in front of his classmates and it was time for me to apologize in front of my class. so, i walked over to where he was sitting, squatted down in front of him, and told him i was very sorry for getting onto him when the mess on the table wasn’t his. i said i was sorry for assuming (of course, i didn’t use that word cause hello, he’s 4) that he hadn’t cleaned up his area, and i was wrong. he looked at me with a big toothy grin and said, ‘that’s okay, miss d.’ my heart melted, and all was right with the world again.
modeling is huge in education. if you want a kid to learn something, SHOW them how to do it. not just with letters and numbers, but in our words, actions, reactions, and responses. will you show pride or humility? because regardless of the situation, whichever you choose, he/she will assume it’s right and follow suit.
(my sincerest apologies for this sounding like a parenting blog…from a single, 23 year old girl)
February 16, 2012 § Leave a comment
there isn’t a song i don’t love from this girl. wonderfully sweet writer.
January 9, 2012 § Leave a comment
“To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, not even to an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket- safe, dark, motionless, airless–it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable.”
December 14, 2011 § Leave a comment
i’m pretty happy about my last three weeks in the gym, but this is such a great reminder about long-term health.
simple-easy-preventative things we can do to benefit our health & lives.
also, this is my 80th post. i’m not sure if i’ve written/posted 80 things that are worthy of being read, but cheers to 80!
December 12, 2011 § Leave a comment
sad christmas is sometimes okay, right?
December 6, 2011 § Leave a comment
you are Lord over all
over all of my days
i will see this season through
i will fix my eyes on you
only you, only you
December 3, 2011 § Leave a comment
i don’t know if there’s anything greater than thrifting
and getting 3 shirts for under 8 bucks. what do those shirts look like, you ask?
a little something like this:
i genuinely can’t wait to put this on.
and yes, the bathroom was also the fitting room. i would expect nothing less.